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Does watching porn make life more fulfilling?
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>>31182743
Fuck you.
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>>31182743
No. Porn lacks the love and connection that sex can give, making the void of true affection ever so apparent. It is so unfulfilling. I wish I never became a user.
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>>31182743
No but personally its fun for me. I dont seek fulfillment in life in reality I just find things that make me happy. Got a gf so I'm happy. I spend my money on food I enjoy so I'm happy. I play video games so I'm happy. In truth happiness is what you make of it. It doesn't need to be complicated just do what you want when its reasonable to do so.
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>>31182743
Probably not, having a normal relationship with someone would make life a thousand times better. Porn just helps me blow my load and blowing my load usually helps me get to sleep, which can possibly be a sign of addiction, idk. What i do know is i have only met met a couple of women who had any interest in me, until they saw my tiny dick. So frankly i wouldn't say it's fulfilling my life, but is helping me from putting my shotgun under my chin and painting with my room with brains.
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>>31182743
this video has been around so long this dude is probably like 45 and has a family now at this point
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>>31182743
Only if it's 90s-2000s porn.
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>>31182743
Yes. It's scientifically proven that porn nourishes the brain and improves character.
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>>31182743
Post 3, cis scum
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>>31182901
I'd say 70s and 80s as well because the soundtracks and storytelling were amazing.
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>>31182743
watching porn won't make you happy, but having a nice intact foreskin and free meds will :D
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Get a hobby. Like actually. Posting online is not a hobby
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>>31182743
Not compared to having a partner, but I have a partner and also sometimes prefer to just jerk off. It's some kind of addiction, but it hasn't negatively impacted my life except when I'm not keeping up with my bf's crazy sex drive.

On a related note, you haven't lived until you've fucked someone for so long they've come half a dozen times and your dick straight up hurts. I've got a hypersexual tboy and that pussy will just keep going. I can't even nut before two or three orgasms holy shit my life is great. I'm a tranny too.
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>>31182743
only if its cuckold porn
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>>31182743
I used to think porn made life more fulfilling. I've been watching it much less now due to my state enforcing ID laws. I have to say I'm better off without it. I went from jerking off multiple times a day to only once or twice a week. My orgasms feel better overall, and I haven't been interested in weird fetishes.

I've also seen a lot of zoomers who are into weird shit like lolicon. I'm pretty sure that's due to watching porn at a very young age. I saw my first anal porno at the age of 16.
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>>31182803
>>31183000
Sometimes you just need to nut without the rigamarole of getting a whole ass other person involved.
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No, but neither do women.
Pick your poison.
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well... it depends, for a short burst on the night? yeah but i longs as the hormones does ,so about like 2min or so?

but when is a OC made for some girlfriend to send to me, or when we recorded some of that, i just keep it like a good memorie and rather of jerk off on that, i... sometimes i turn nostalgic and just wanted to see more of her/s cause...seeing them that way of confident and happy makes me feel okay.
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>>31182743
It definitely does
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>>31182743
>No fucking mentioned
As any member of mammalian organisms, you're here to have sex.
Porn isn't sex for the watcher. Next question.
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>>31182743
Imagine how fucking gay you have to be to setup your phone and film yourself standing over your stove like this and type out all of those captions and then actually post it. He could have gone on a hike or done something fulfilling instead of whining about his life.
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>>31182743
lol certainly nowhere as much as having an active and enjoyable sex life. Isn't that obvious past a certain point of chronic porn use?
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Add some webms and see. Keep the thread going anons
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>>31184000
Keep on keeping on.
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I remember being blasted by this shit around the age of 11. It started devolving so quickly that I became a cuck fag at the age of 15. Done some shit I wasn't proud of and acted like a fucking retard. Now I'm 21 and have been trying to throw it off for the last 3 years. The longest time without a relapse was almost 2 weeks.
I feel like it caused some kind of spiritual death in me. Being numbed to all the people around me. Haven't been able to love or keep my faith. Everything turned into a mix of grey cynicism and nihilism, with not being able to see joy in anything. But trying one day at a time is the key, Anons. You only have control over the present, after all.

It's not like the world is in a better state anyway, but you can't fix the universe by yourself. Fuck it.
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>>31182743
No, it's a cope necessary to compensate for the dysfunctional system we live in that makes 99% of guys incels like me. You really think I'd be wasting my time on this if I had a fulfilling sex life?
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>>31183751
He could have gone for a dri ...
>bmw
Maybe not.
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>>31182743
>Does watching porn make life more fulfilling?
porn is just tool to make you sexually useless.
In regards to webm - going to work is fine, having car is nice and giving you freedom, in work you meet a lot of new people and if you are not too much of autist you make some friends and connections maybe even find love that will fulfill your life
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>>31184106
This is pretty much my experience with it, except that I'm 25. Hope you find your way out soon. You already have the mindset.
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>>31182743
Yes.
Relationships are good. Sex is good. Masturbation is good. Porn makes masturbation better, and in the end no matter how good the sex, no one can give you what you want like you can, and you can't get all the pleasing visuals while having sex.
Is it the only thing worth living for? No, of course not, but it's a nice bit of spice on a nice piece of life.
>>31183630
This anon is an idiot, mammals are insignificant, all living things reproduce, it's an action, not a purpose.
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>>31185261
>all living things reproduce
Most DIE after copulating, which means sex is a purpose, the only purpose. Next lie, please.
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>>31182753
porn is used as a substitute and it destabilizes men and women's sexuality. its a nice pick me up but when used all the time it leads to misery and crazy (ok crazier) women
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>>31185283
all die eventually, there is no purpose.
Next retardation please.
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>>31182743
Far from it.
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>>31182743
You work so you can live your life
You're not supposed to live your life to work like wat lmao

Also no
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where do I find this video?
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>>31185261
Where do I find this video?
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No, but since my wife doesn't really want to have sex anymore, I just watch it to get a quick nut. It's not healthy, but neither is eating lunch meat or working around diesel fumes.
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>>31182743
It's about as fulfilling as anything else that doesn't contribute to your growth.
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>>31182743
This is now a hopecore thread. Act accordingly.
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>>31182743
and he got the stove
the stove is happiness, the stove is life
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>>31182922
just lie masturbating staves off prostate cancer
thank you shlomo
diversity is our strength
women rights are human rights
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>>31184227
Why not?
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>>31182743
No, it's not fulfilling. it's a diversion and intoxicant, like drinking. Likewise, you should keep it under control.
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>>31185283
>t. fruit fly brain uploaded to 4chan
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>>31186521
>masturbating staves off prostate cancer
This is very much a "not staring at the sun prevents blindness" sort of factoid.
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>>31186692
By that logic, refraining from jacking off will inevitably lead to cancer
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>>31186710
>refraining from jacking off will inevitably lead to cancer
Oh. My. Science. So my urge to jerk to goontent was actually preventative care? Thank you Fauci!
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>>31182743
I'm undesirable to women and there is nothing i can do about it. So the only way i can get any sexual gratification is from porn. Of course it would be more fulfilling to receive affection but for lower value males that is not an option. So yes, i jerk off multiple times a day and i'll do it until i'm 80
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>>31186521
Yes beating cancer with one hand.
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>>31182803
Unless you're an 8/10+ the amount of effort it takes to get sex is absolutely not worth it.
Sex is only worth it if you can get it with little effort where it comes naturally, if you're bending your life around women you're in a diminishing returns situation.
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>>31182753
>void of true affection
you jerk off because you are horny, not because you are lonely
not that i understand loneliness anyway, "void of true affection" and "love and connection that sex can give" is just gay faggot cringe shit when i read it, how much of a loser are you?
just jerk off when horny bro, eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy, thats a good life
maybe you just need hobbies and friends, but you are confusing this desire.
I see posts like this all the time, but longing for "affection" is actually just so foreign, honestly just end it, you are supposed to be culled i think

>>31182743
seeing genz niggas becoming what we hate millennials for being, is actually depressing
so many narcissistic snowflakes
that test level drop at around 30 must be brutal
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>>31182743
I would say out of the box for 99%of people, no
I was born with an excessively high sex drive(family curse), so it helps me keep it on a lease so to speak, and I imagine im not the only one.
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>>31182743

Goddamn people failing this hard at living is just hilarious to me man. "Oh no I have the money and the car and a place to live but im to fucking retarded to go out and have fun woe is meeee"
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>>31182743
I'm just happy that there still are places to view boob pics for free and without having to feed the kikes with your personal information, because I fear that this time will one day come to an end.
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>>31182743
Yes, though its masturbatory outcome is less valuable than, say, gardening.
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>>31182743
He got the car but didn’t get a better fuckin kitchen. Learn how to cook with the time you spent making this video lol. Find a hobby that speaks to you because you should be able to afford it. What the FUCK is this even about?
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>>31186865
> "void of true affection" and "love and connection that sex can give" is just gay faggot cringe shit when i read it

Fellas, is it gay to have a girlfriend to have sex with?
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>>31182743
No. But jerking off is the least harmful of the vices in my opinion.
>Only depends on stimuli localized entirely within your own body, doesn't require you to drink a substance like alcohol or smoke a pesticide like weed or tobacco.
>It has a built in biological mechanism to make you quit after several minutes. In order to become a goonaholic you have to bypass this by edging.
>Tissues are extremely cheap compared to buying cigarettes, alcohol, or gambling that money away.
>You become normal again after you finish, making it much easier to be functional if you are addicted.
Obviously there does come a point of no return if you do get severely addicted to it. The worst case scenario being you troon out and/or rape kids to satisfy your desires. Like any vice, it's not completely harmless, but if you do have to pick your poison it's not a bad option.
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>>31187036
Sounds like they're playing you like a fiddle
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>>31182743
Fuck no. If pornography got wiped off the face of the earth I wouldn't lose much sleep over. I use it because I'm kind of addicted and never got laid.
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>>31182753
This. Masturbation is just a release valve so I don't gawk after attractive women that would never give me the time of the day anyway.
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>>31182803
If you are the owner of a bona fide shotgun and haven't killed yourself yet I salute you. The only reason I haven't killed myself decades ago is that I don't have access to firearms.
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>>31186869
Leash
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>>31182743
Does anyone have the version of this webm where it's side-by-side with a compilation of a tiktok foid travelling around the world having fun
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Idk man. I have a gf and they're down to fuck often but, most of the time, I'd rather jerk myself off slow and goon to huge porn titties.
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>>31182779
pretty much this

>>31186864
it's only a lot of effort until you lock in a nice gf. I have one and she cooks, cleans, fucks when I want, massages me, keeps gossip to a min. I'm probably a bit out of her league though, which is just the cost to make sure she feels she got a good deal. If you looksmatch or date up, she won't do shit in my experience and will likely cheat.

>>31183000
yeah, i like both. When my gf visits her family I'll go through porn/social media softcore stuff. It's only like a few days out of the month. I actually look forward to it. There's a ton of content to catch up on like a tv show.

>>31188048
same. Also love streaming girls. Will watch like a dozen chicks at once, record it all, then clip my favorite parts. It's like having a harem for a few hours. Better than escors too since you don't have to deal with logistics or stds or losing thousands of dollars.
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>>31184106
Yo sweet same, but I'm 30yo. There's really no escaping the erotic in life I'm afraid and it is extremely difficult to find a wife now. I'm considering monasticism because of it, since living in the world seems like living in the hopes of a lottery win.
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>>31182743
No, but making porn does.
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>>31188375
Having a wife or gf or anyone meaningful in the matter is hard, but not impossible. Making peace with being lonely in the short term is, IMO, the only way forward. Lovefoolishness can hit you anytime, but at least you'll be better prepared. Cutting the porn off is healthy, and nofap seems nice, but you gotta take the relief off somehow, so once a week is a goal.

As for the rest, finding meaningful stuff to put your heart into can be almost as good as finding a soulmate. And it makes you way more interesting, so at the very least, the people you meet will be too. If they won't reveal themselves as whores that is.

Even the shittiest ratio to risk is a better option than giving up in full. C'est la vie, Anon.
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>>31188488
Objectively not though. The worst outcome for marriage seems practically guaranteed nowadays so you'd be infact incurring only cost. There is no such thing as a good divorce.
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>>31188516
Well, Anon, all we can do is hope for the best, isn't it? You cannot automatically assume everything will end in divorce (despite it being an all-time high). Sure, it has a visible probability, but it's not predetermined. If you dream of a happy life with someone you love, then, damn brother, it is a dream worth fighting for.

It won't happen to everyone, sure. Just like cancer, malaria, homelessness, war, and metric shit ton of other things you will or won't avoid. And if the odds are against us, the lost causes are the only ones worth fighting for (pardon the drama).

Your fate may be a derivative of all kinds of choices and conditions, but you may at least do it with full chest, straightened back, and head up right.
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>>31182743
You get better orgasms when you masturbate to someone you have a connection with and like. Even masturbating to a picture of your manager can get you a good orgasm. Masturbating to porn videos isn't so great in comparison. It's fulfilling until the post nut clarity kicks in
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>>31182743
It's stress relief, nothing more
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>>31185455
rebel rhyder and jesse pony. Every version I found cut out the slapping so if you find one with it be cool and link.>>31188664

>>31188664
I hate this place-this site is a monument to masturbation and yet so many of you are clearly fucking bad at. If can't get a better organism watching two S-tier twenty year olds lez out than your mother of 3, 40 yo manager you are doing it wrong.
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>>31183202
Preach brother
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>>31185283
Shows how much you value yourself, you fucking failure.
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>>31188744
unrepentant gooner you are going down
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>>31188895
Yeah, it's called a refractory period, but some good porn will perk that right back up
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>>31182743
passes the time, thats all
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Nah, sex does.
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>>31182743
No, only reason I masturbait is cause i started at like fucking 6 or 9, and came from a dysfunctional abusive home, I've been molested as a kid but imo porn fucked me over way worse the any irl experience, porn is unironically virtual/digital child rape since most people are exposed to it at a young age when they don't know what the fuck is going on, they only realise how hard it broke their brain once they're already brain damaged
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Maybe?
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Kikes will try to kill you and use the government and illegal niggers to do so
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>>31182743
>Does watching porn make life more fulfilling?
Does eating goy slop make life more fulfilling? Hundreds of millions of people all over the world would answer yes. At least on some level. Both weaken people, and make them more easy to control. If they didn't scratch a primal itch, they would be inneffective tools of subjugation. Not gonna lie. I enjoy getting it up and blasting a few ropes to asian pussy on a screen a few times a week, about as much as I enjoy a shake shack burger every once in awhile. I'm human.
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>>31182753
It also lacks the risk sex can give. Mainly, divorce, which ruins your entire life instantly. Or even just a simple heartbreak and years of wasted time. Just jerk off instead, it's healthier.
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>>31184106
But what's the alternative though? I'm also 21, but I live in a Western country. Most women are subhuman and dating them would make my life worse. I work with a lot of divorced people, or guys dating single moms, or even guys who are in their 30s and still regularly using dating apps and taking women out on pointless dates that go nowhere. Is that really a better life than just watching porn? I agree that having a cute loyal wife is better than relying on porn, but how many of us ever get that anyway?
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>>31185697
Imagine centering your life around and taking care of a woman who won't fulfill your most basic needs. You're pathetic.
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>>31183054
I know I'll never meet anyone who'se gonna last long with me so why should I even bother
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>>31182743
I love the stupidity of this one, because the dude is describing exactly why he's the problem.
"I do nothing but the compulsory, why is my life so hollow and repetitive?"
Go to the closest gigantic park retard. Or go fishing, fix up and ride a used bicycle, get into running, learn how to play an instrument, take up painting. Anything that isn't just you consuming things and/or wallowing in your own misery. Adventure isn't that hard to find, you just can't be pretentious about it.
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>>31182743
NPC philslohy.

Same guy who gets married
>"because I guess it's the next step"

And has kids because
>"well I guess I have to"

Zero agency, zero will, absolutely zero meaningful introspection.
>huuur why does my life suck, I followed all the rules from the book and I still got divorced and my kids didn't fix any of my problems and the economy is soooo bad and unfair huuur
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>>31182743
It allows me to avoid attachments to women while focusing on improving your life and becoming a better man

Women hate to see a nigga working on himself. If youre a mediocre dude in a relationship with a mid woman on your level, and you try to seriously change your life to escape the absolute fucking bullshit imposed on you by society, she will absolutely sabotage you and keep you from ever rising above her level.

Watching porn helps you take care of your sexual needs while you learn not to be dependent for your social and emotional needs, without repressing your libido or forcing it to atrophy completely. Its a unique form of male empowerment that hasnt been possible for most of human history, its good to be aware of this.

That said like anuthing else that is effective it can also be dangerous when used irresponsibly, if you go full gooner it can absolutely destroy your soul far worse than any benefit it can possibly bring; for the average retard 4chan npc youre best avoiding it as much as your pathetic willpower or lack thereof can manage
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>>31191315
It's really only a proper decision when you decide to give up completely. Sure, you may end up divorced, heartbroken and disappointed, but you're living. Being emotionally numb is a solution to ease the pain, true, but it's also a path to turn yourself into a vegetative state.

You cannot guarantee success or failure, because you cannot guarantee anything that doesn't depend entirely on you. Try, try and try. Not everything shitting itself up is your fault, just as not everything going well is a sign of your capabilities.

And I do agree that the situation in the dating scene is grim. Everybody is turning on everybody; people are two-faced, shitty and ungrateful; everything is getting more expensive and requiring more of you. But you cannot change it. The only thing you fully control is yourself. So do what you can to make the world like the one you want it to be, because only you can do it.

Bless you all, Anons. God knows you need it.
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>>31182743
About as fulfilling as making this thread every time the last one dies, probably.
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>>31191283
OR or. another thing a lot of simps (mostly and mutilated americans) cant comprehend is the simple act of just paying $20-50 to fuck some chick blow your load and tell her thanks and say goodbye.

I know you americans like to act all high and mighty Im one myself, but once you realize you have pedophile politicians and your country loves sending its own to die for pedo jews. Than you will learn why fucking some broad for a few bucks and than going on with your own life aint that bad.
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>>31182743
short distraction from the misery. but then it all floods back. thats why some try to coom all day
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>>31192121
sauce?
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I recall something a psychotherapist once said at a course I attended :
Pornography addiction and addiction in general are the way people generally try to cope with difficulties in their lives.
Addiction isn't a problem per se; it's the only solution a lot of people have and know of.
The best approach, from his perspective, is to better understand the deep-rooted need behind the addiction and to understand the dynamic there, how the need is satisfied or addressed and to try to find new ways of addressing the underlying need. When you find new, more positive ways of coping and addressing your deeper need, then the addiction itself will wane.

He also said something HIGHLY interesting about porn addiction; he mentioned that pornography addiction is again a coping mechanism for a lot of men, that it's a way men tend to try to avoid rejection and/or getting hurt again by the opposite sex. It can also function as a way of "numbing" yourself to painful emotions or uncomfortable feelings when life tends to become hard or unbearable.

I am also reminded of a cool TED talk on this topic with the title "The opposite of addiction is connection," and in some regards that video was on the same wavelength as what the therapist I previously mentioned said. Basically, when you connect to yourself/your needs in a different, more adaptive way, the need for the addiction weakens or goes away for good.

Mind you, this is a logical explanation, and life tends to get much messier, and sometimes it can be harder to get results in the field.

Have a good one, and God bless you, Bros and Sisters!
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>Does watching porn make life more fulfilling?
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>>31182743
Porn saved my life. I developed an anxiety disorder in high school and masturbating was a guaranteed way to calm me down. Once I'd blow a load, I'd relax and feel less anxious.

Why are you coming to this board just to make weird puritanical shaming posts about people who look at porn and people who make porn? What are you trying to change? It really seems like you're wasting your time.
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>>31185697
Not nutting is unhealthy and denial of sex is why porn is morally right